Emotional
Eating Help - Why Does it Happen?
Susan (name
changed) has lost about 100 kilograms of weight at
different times of her life, only to gain it all
back again, and more! She has tried dozens of fad diets,
weight loss pills and nutritional shakes. Most have not
worked at all and the relative few that have are not of much
long term use because she just can’t seem to control the eating
frenzy when it overtakes her.
There
are millions of men and women in the world today, who,
like Susan, feel helpless in the face of food. They know
very well that they should not be eating the way they are,
but they seem incapable of stopping it. Why? Well,
the first reason is that they do not possess a full
understanding of why emotional eating happens in the first
place. Only when you grasp the root cause of a
problem can you find an effective solution for
it.
What causes emotional
eating?
Emotional eating
happens when your emotions are tangled with the way you
perceive and eat food. You eat to fill the void
within your heart and not the emptiness in your stomach. And
you keep on eating more and more until that void
disappears (which it does only temporarily). So,
the solution to emotional eating comes with
understanding the void within you and finding constructive
and positive ways to fill it. Some of the most common
reasons that contribute to emotional eating
are:
Stress: More than two-thirds of
overweight adults agree that they take to overeating when
they are stressed or feeling anxiety. When you are stressed,
you become ‘orally fidgety’ and you automatically reach out
for a bag of chips or a tub of delicious ice cream, and
you keep on eating until you alleviate the stress
building up inside. Of course, this is but a short-term
solution. The real triggers of the stress you feel
have not been addressed
Unresolved
emotions: Many people have a number
of unresolved emotions bottled up deep inside.
It can be childhood trauma or a bitter adult experience
like a job loss, breakup, or the lack of a
fulfilling love life. When people cannot confront their
emotions, they divert their attention away from
the anger, loneliness, pain, resentment, fear or
desperation that they feel by overeating.
Social
eating: Food has become an integral part of
social celebrations. Whether it is a social gathering, a
birthday, wedding, a promotional event, or even a
funeral, we feel the pressure to supply food when
we host an event and eat what is offered when we attend one.
Unfortunately, people with eating problems turn these events
into an excuse to overeat. Many people with overeating
problems even try to avoid going to events for that reason
only.
Boredom: You may not believe it, but
many people overeat simply because of the lack of anything
better to do! It’s Friday night and you have nothing
interesting to do, all you friends are away…so, what do
you do? Go to the nearby restaurant and eat without a care,
or order some take-away and munch for hours in front of the
TV!
PMS:
In women who are approaching menopause, hormonal changes may
trigger overwhelming emotions that may ultimately lead to
overeating.
Emotional overeating
is more about your emotions that about what you eat. To get
rid of it, you must first get to the root of the problem.
Understand yourself. Ask questions and do not shrink from
some amount of hard talk. It’s either that, or a life
chained to unhealthy food choices!
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